squirting-689861_640When it comes to matters about your girl’s pleasure, you literally have it at your fingertips. With jut the use of your hands, you can provide her with maximum pleasure and make her squirt. The vagina is a very sensitive area that has a lot of nerve endings that when properly stimulated, can give her an amazing orgasm. With the powerful techniques on how to finger her, you are assured of making her squirt.

Below are some of the techniques:

The Rubber

For almost any woman, the best part to stimulate is her clitoris. What you need to do is first apply water based lubricant on your fingers to make them slippery. Then, using the tips of your middle finger, rub her clitoris in soft and circular motions. If you are doing it the right way, you will know from how her body reacts.

Continue with the same pace while increasing the speed slowly. Try not to go too fast because you will easily lose focus. If the woman is enjoying it, she might give a comment to show the pleasure. There are some that even like it when you transit slowly from the clitoris into her vagina without her noticing it.

The G-spot Sign

The G-spot can be quite difficult to locate. Though hard to find, the searching process can be very enjoyable. The G-spot is usually located at the top part inside the vagina. The fastest and easiest way to locate it is by use of fingers with your hand palm turned up. Using your fingers make something like a hook motion. With your fingers still curved, insert them slowly and try to imagine that you want to touch her belly button. Don’t be in a rush when starting, go in slow motions and then you can increase the pace as the pleasure increases.

The Double Arousal

This involves the use of both hands to stimulate your girl. Using the fingertips of one hand, rub her clitoris in slow motions and at the same time glide your other hand inside her vagina. The hand help technique increases the chance of her squirting and she will remain lubricated. To add stimulation, try keeping your palm turned upward. Another trick is, when you are sliding your fingers in her vagina, tap her clitoris gently. And you are going to see the magic it does.

The Fastest Finger

This is the best technique for women who like hopping up and down. To ensure that it works best, kneel directly in front of her with her legs wide spread. In this position you can see her vagina clearly and won’t miss it while thrusting. Insert your fingers in a very fast motion and do this until she reaches orgasm and squirts.

Wrap Up

These are just a few of the finger techniques that you can use to arouse your girl. Remember that every woman reaches her orgasm differently. So if one does not work well for you, stop it and try a different one until you get what suits her best.

oral-sex-1238553_640Performing oral sex on your wife or girlfriend is a wonderful way to show you care about her and her sexual needs. It is also a way to help her heal her body and mind. There are many benefits a girl is able to take away from a guy eating her out beside just the pleasure factor and feeling closer to her mate. Oral sex is an excellent way to provide the stimulation that is needed to give her that toe curling sheet-clutching release that she needs.

If your partner has trouble sleeping, giving her an orgasm may be the answer. After an orgasm your body produces oxytocin. Oxytocin is also known as the cuddle hormone. Recent studies have shown that oxytocin, while not directly linked to causing a person to become sleepy, has a great effect on how fast a person is able to fall asleep, how long they will sleep, and the quality of sleep they receive.

It seems a bit strange, but an orgasm can help to relieve a person of the hiccups. Long lasting hiccups, hiccups that can last up to 48 hours, are most commonly associated with an irritation of the vagus nerves. These are the nerves that serve the diaphragm. When a person has an orgasm, the vagus nerve is super stimulated. This stimulation may be enough to relieve the irritation on the nerve and stop the hiccups.

One of the oldest cliches associated with sex is the not-tonight-I-have-a-headache excuse. Good news! Orgasms actually help relieve or at least reduce the effects of a headache. The study was published in the International Headache Society’s journal, Cephalalgia, in 2013.

Orgasms can help women with cramps and the symptoms of PMS. Before an orgasm, a woman’s uterus is relaxed. When she reaches climax, all of the uterus muscles contract and the area receives increased blood flow. This helps with the physical aspect of menstrual cramps. At the height of the orgasm, the brain releases natural pain killing chemicals and mood enhancers that reduce the overall pain of the cramps and can help reduce the irritable feelings associated with PMS.

During an orgasm, the body releases endorphins into the body. These chemicals are much like morphine in the way they make our body react. They relieve pain and give us a “High” feeling. Kind of like the “High” runners get after an especially high energy run. Dopamine is one of those endorphins. Dopamine is also the main chemical in many prescription anti-depression medications. So, is it really all that far-fetched to believe that these endorphins can help pick you up when you are a little blue? In fact, many studies show that orgasms are good for depression and encourage more sex because of that benefit.

The power of the orgasm to heal the female body is amazing. Almost as amazing as the female body itself. If you have a woman in your life and you want her to be happier and healthier and understand just how much you love her, show her by giving her oral stimulation.